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CAN POLYGAMY SAVE THE BLACK FAMILY?

CAN POLYGAMY SAVE THE BLACK FAMILY?

CAN POLYGAMY SAVE THE BLACK FAMILY? WHAT IS YOUR HONEST OPINION?

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The African Family Structure

It would be a negligent oversight to examine the Afrikan family structure without making reference to polygyny (the practice of several women joining unto one man), which incidentally was first introduced into ancient societies by the Afrikan Woman. In the old days of Afrika’s glory the woman considered herself nothing without a man to defend her and a man was nothing without a woman and a family to defend. At this time polygyny was generally practiced throughout most of the world, a result of the Black Man’s cultural influence all around the globe. Polygyny or polygamy, as some call it, was adopted by Black Women to ensure every woman in the society having access to a man, whose primary role was protector, guide, provider and keeper of the realm.

As already stated, in these ancient Afrikan societies women were held in the highest honor and respect, the female entity was revered and oft-times worshipped as the Great Mother, Nourisher and Sustainer of life, the source of all terrestrial inspiration and the maintainer of revitalized life. This was the usual way of life in those wonderful days when the Black Man dominated the earth, widespread love, respect and affection was consistently demonstrated by the Black Man to the Black Woman. He delighted in adorning her with gold and silver often rhapsodizing to her in the most beautiful language (perhaps this is why sisters still love to hear a Black Man lay down some good “rap” even unto this day), the norm in ancient Black Society, where each gender clearly accepted and dignified their distinguished roles in the community with mutual affection and respect for one another. In those days of amorous joy Black Women delighted in dancing and singing praises to their men especially after they had returned from the battle (usually in defense of the homeland) or the hunt.

The family practices of the Black Man’s High Culture System began to deteriorate in certain parts of the world namely Europe and northern Asia when the Caucasian appeared on the scene. At first white Europeans with no real culture of their own, other than the insatiable love of warfare, tried to emulate the Afrikan in the practice of polygyny although there was no general change in his attitude regarding the treatment of the Caucasian woman. With the coming of syphilis and its wide-spread infections among the women of his race, which caused the largest percentage of the female population to die out like flies, the nomadic Caucasians leaving their bodies where they fell, the shortage in the already limited female population was intensified so the European shortly returned to monogamy, homosexuality and the wide-spread practice of polyandry – one woman, many men.

In the European custom of polyandry one woman, be she mother, daughter, sister and in some cases a queen, became the wife of as many as ten or more men, included in this group might be her father, her son, her brother, her cousin, her uncle as well as her husband and on certain occasions, at the whim of the family head man she was made available for the pleasure of all the men in the community. The ancient Europeans said their rationale for doing this was an attempt to minimize the constant fighting and bloodletting of rivals over the limited amount of women available.

It was out of this confusion that the patriarchal line of descent and the modern European system of monogamy was born. As a result of eventual European world domination many Black People and other peoples of color have been forced to adopt monogamy and in same cases rape and homosexuality as a cultural frame of reference. Subliminally this is one of the manifold reasons for the many traumatic Black Male-Female relationships in the United States and other parts of the world today. But in spite of this mental conditioning we as a people must join unto our own and through the proper light of understanding correctly put into practice those systems that will prosper and sustain us, insuring Our survival and longevity on the earth.

At this point a word of caution is in order. The above statements of historical fact – and it is an irrefutable fact that the practice of polygyny was the norm for Afrikans before the coming of the European – were not intended to denigrate or condemn those families where the Black Man and Woman mutually prefer a monogamous relationship, rather they have been cited to present the cultural roots, validity and obvious advantages of polygyny for Black families who wish to practice it today. Of course it must be clearly understood, especially by the brothers that this is not something you just up and jump into without careful thought and preparation, for there are great responsibilities involved.

But those Black Men and Women who are serious and adequately prepare themselves through consultation, study and self discipline applying the practice of polygyny on the high spiritual plane of which it was originally developed will eventually become some of the most respected and powerful men and women in the world. It is believed by some Black Scholars who have carefully and painstakingly studied the societal structures of Afrikan People that the correct application of this system could be a mighty key factor in the economic, spiritual, mental and physical survival of Blacks wherever we are in the world today.

One of the main reasons why polygyny was developed and practiced by the ancients was to enhance the economic power of the family, community and nation. Wherein a brother might achieve moderately well in a basic monoganous structure, he could maximize his efforts a hundred fold with the right combination of sister-wives. Bear in mind this idea was first introduced into the community by the women of the society. The biblical story of Jacob, the reputed father of the Israelite nation, mentions his four wives and how the first two brought the latter two into the family. In this present Euro-centric dominated society which is adverse to our very nature, it is somewhat difficult for us to practice those traditions which are more in tuned with our cosmic vibrations. Therefore we must adopt the wisdom of the Kawaida doctrine which advises us to practice “tradition and reason” as we strive to create a new society a better condition and a better world.

There is much truth in the old adage “Where there is a will, there is a way.”
As always it is imperative for us as a people to be constantly advancing in knowledge and understanding ever cultivating the habit of doing those things which contribute to our growth. Above all we must not allow ourselves to become stagnant or we will be like the sitting waters that provide a habitation and breeding ground for blood sucking mosquitoes which can be likened unto our natural enemy hovering overhead, ever ready to feed upon our spiritual being and suck out the life blood of our mind, buzzing about and laying the eggs of his degenerate society. Those brothers and sisters who may react to the above statements out of wild undiciplined emotion instead of the logic and scientific analysis of a sound mind which was originally created and given to you for the purpose of deductive reasoning, we advise; investigate and examine before you rush forward to condemn. Black People must be very certain that the concepts and decisions on the part of both male and female regarding the practice of polygyny are based on knowledge, wisdom, logic and understanding rather than negative emotional reaction.

In light of this let not the white-mindedness that to some degree has infected all of us be a stumbling block to our progress as a race.
In raising this issue we are fully aware that humans tend to see into a concept that which appeals to their own personal desires, therefore we do strongly urge this subject be approached with the right mental and spiritual attitude. For it is our fervent prayer that we as a people may soon move from a position of weak powerlessness to our own proper position of power and strength on the Earth. Again we admonish those brothers and sisters who are desirous of practicing polygyny to study and investigate it well,being certain to properly prepare themselves mentally, physically and spiritually so as to avoid the emotional pain and suffering which is repercussive of incorrect and clandestine dealings.

At all times the brother must be honest, fair, wise and strong in order for the sisters to feel confident and secure in the relationship. In light of the wide percentage gap between the Black Female and Black Male population, particularly in America, sisters should adopt a cooperative spirit, while seeking ways to remedy this situation. Every Black Woman who needs and wants one should have a Black man. Remember the survival of the race is at stake here, not our uncontrolled emotions.

As I review the great benefits of polygyny to our ancient societies I’m inclined, while at the same time considering our present position here in the western hemisphere, to propose that this way of life must be revived and redeveloped in this day but it must be done correctly and in harmony with good principles. There is much information and many living examples of this practice available to those who diligently seek it out. Again let us reaffirm that this subject was not presented to foment consternation or to cause brothers and sisters to throw up their defenses, “jump salty with each other” and become polarized into forming opposing camps but rather as a review and examination of a historical reality which has been a component of the Afrikan way of life from earliest times unto the present. We trust those few who may not be in agreement with us in this matter will not assume a hostile posture and discount all the other points of vital information in this book. And so with undying Black Love for all, ponder it will understand the true spirit in which it was set forth.

Surely the Creator who revealed the divine light of understanding to our Ancestors in the past is the best knower and the best doer. Now let us consider some of the other sharply contrasting, irreconcilable distinctions which eternally exist between the Afrikan and the Caucasian.

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That was a big post.

Afrikan people have been brainwased inro the uncleanly yurugu way of thinking.

Its time to come back to the foundation. I 100% believe in polygamy.When its practiced righteously and morally.

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It’s out dated now … No need for it ..

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I DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT STILL…AS LONG AS ITS DONE WITH RESPECT.

SAME THING WITH THE GYALLICE DEM NOWADAYS…..IF YOU AGO HAVE ONE BAG A WOMAN…AT LEAST DEAL WITH DEM GOOD.
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Big post Jihad…… cant fight yu on this one!

Poligamy or multiple wives are a biblical practice so anything my God endorse mi hafi support…..

Every king should have at least two queens….. stamp out adultry and fornication, man fi have as many wives as he can support…..

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why it can’t be a woman having multiple husbands ?? see,it doesn’t work out

It’s not right…

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why it can’t be a woman having multiple husbands ?? see,it doesn’t work out

It’s not right…

Stop being an idiot…… what do you know about right and wrong.

If you want a woman that keeps many men you can get one, nuff a dem out deh.
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Stop being an idiot…… what do you know about right and wrong.

If you want a woman that keeps many men you can get one, nuff a dem out deh.

why it’s always the man who can have nuff wifes ??

keep it equal and simple yute ..

That system is not good for women,you gotta respect these ladies rasta yute …fulltime now ..

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King of swaziland just got 14th wife…she like 30 years younger than him!
the reasons behind polygamy have been distorted and are now a status thing…nothing against it if its done right tho..
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why it’s always the man who can have nuff wifes ??

keep it equal and simple yute ..

That system is not good for women,you gotta respect these ladies rasta yute …fulltime now ..

I would explain it to you but the mere fact that it needs explaination is evident that it would be lost on you.

Keep believing yu feminist gender bias …. if yu believe you and a woman is equal then maybe you should go get yu a few husbands too…
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I would explain it to you but the mere fact that it needs explaination is evident that it would be lost on you.

Keep believing yu feminist gender bias fart…. if yu believe you and a woman is equal then maybe you should go get yu a few husbands too…

yeah,this a joke ..yeah the man is used as sperm donor. So poly is just a man thing ?? Why should any woman be in this relationship ?? Enough black babies deh bout. No need for it today.

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Damn, can’t believe JIHAD and JesusDread actually agreeing on something! Nice to see finally!

As a female, I am not sure I would want to be in a polygamous marriage, unless I was wife #1. Can’t tek backseat to no other female. The only way a polygamous marriage could possibly work is if the man can equally divide his time, attention,respect, and affection amongst the wives. There could be no preferential treatment. He would have to be able to financially support and sustain his multiple families, amongst other things. The way the economy is I don’t see that happening, but maybe I am wrong. It is hard enough to sustain one family, much less 3 or 4 families. Besides, I don’t know if any man can equally divide himself amongst more than one wife…..it is hard alone to divide yourself between spouse and child.
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I agree, so long (as stated) it is done with respect and honesty

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why it can’t be a woman having multiple husbands ?? see,it doesn’t work out

It’s not right…

Maybe because there are more women than there are men in the world!

and as for the famous old time saying…
a women cannot do what the men do and still be a lady!

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Damn, can’t believe JIHAD and JesusDread actually agreeing on something! Nice to see finally!

As a female, I am not sure I would want to be in a polygamous marriage, unless I was wife #1. Can’t tek backseat to no other female. The only way a polygamous marriage could possibly work is if the man can equally divide his time, attention,respect, and affection amongst the wives. There could be no preferential treatment. He would have to be able to financially support and sustain his multiple families, amongst other things. The way the economy is I don’t see that happening, but maybe I am wrong. It is hard enough to sustain one family, much less 3 or 4 families. Besides, I don’t know if any man can equally divide himself amongst more than one wife…..it is hard alone to divide yourself between spouse and child.

idiot ..that makes no sense ..if you don’t respect being a second wife position,you won’t respect the second and third wife

hence you wouldn’t be a good first wife.

I don’t even see how people like you wanna be number 1,when its not something ur use to.

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I agree, so long (as stated) it is done with respect and honesty

Maybe because there are more women than there are men in the world!

and as for the famous old time saying…
a women cannot do what the men do and still be a lady!

it’s a bad practice in my view. I want to love 1 woman,not 20. In today’s world having 60 children is not really required. It’s almost crazy to even take this seriously.

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idiot ..that makes no sense ..if you don’t respect being a second wife position,you won’t respect the second and third wife

hence you wouldn’t be a good first wife.

I don’t even see how people like you wanna be number 1,when its not something ur use to.

DUMB ASS learn to read….that is why I said I DO NOT think I would do it.
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DUMB ASS learn to read….that is why I said I DO NOT think I would do it.

why the hell would i read everything if the first part makes no sense ?? think me have time fi waste ? ?

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As a female, I am not sure I would want to be in a polygamous marriage, unless I was wife #1.

Actually, no Slick, you presented a scenario that you would acquiesce to. Higherlevels just pointed out that irregularity, within character of course .

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yeah,this a joke ..yeah the man is used as sperm donor. So poly is just a man thing ?? Why should any woman be in this relationship ?? Enough black babies deh bout. No need for it today.

This aint just about making babies yute, well maybe in Jihad’s point of view.

This is about family and relationship… isn’t it better to have two or three wives that you love and cherish than be forced to have one and a bag of mateys and one night stands? Dont try and tell me you only a sex one woman and that yu faithful to her… so whose way is better ethically and emotionally?

Sometimes yu fi stop and think outside of the box babylon have yu trapped in yute…

Multiple marriages is approved of by God… go read the bible… but a woman should have only one husband… matter of fact a woman by right should remain a virgin till she’s married but babylon society pressure everybody fi have sex as a casual passtime.

Anyway, gwaan go join yu female harem weh yu wife have 10 husband since yu a advocate equality between man and woman…. clown.
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I think the key issue is not the form of the marriage but the bond between a man and his children, we are lacking that seriously within the black community.

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Polygamy doesn’t work, if it did wouldn’t it be the norm. I also think it makes for jealousy and a mixture of emotions. What kind of example and confusion is it setting for the children involved. The only thing I can see that the guy is gaining out of it is a variety of women to shag. What are the odds of all three of them having a headache one night

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Good point One Shot….if black men (and women) would take care of their resposnibilities to their children, the black community would be better off……I don’t see how being in a polygamous marriage would help that.

Okay, in a polygamous there may be more women around in these children lives, where if one is lacking on their parental obligations, the other “mothers” could pick up the slack, but what about the father? How would he propose to take care of all the children not only financially, but emotionally as well? How can he give those children “normal” lives when he is having to spend other days with his other wives and children? IMO that is no different than men who have a wife, and a woman on the side with a child (of his).

The survival of our race wouldn’t be an issue if people were more responsible as parents. IF you don’t want a child or know that you cannot be a responsible parent, then cover up or protect yourself. Don’t bring children into this world leaving them to fend for themselves.
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Like everything else, polygamy can be abused. We dont need to get into details to explain this but if done with respect and out of love, having two or more wives might mean the end or the drastic diminishing of absent fathers and broken black homes/families. How many kids are now fatherless or only see dad occasionally just because dad had another woman? If polygamy was allowed, many kids would have a father in the home and the benefit of being raised by two or more ‘moms’ instead of one stressed out madda.

I am not saying polygamy is for everyone or should be a requirement, just that it should be allowed for those who are willing to go that route. Almost every man I know have or has had more than one woman at some time or other and the cheating, sneaking around and lying was so unfair and unnecessary… If it wasn’t looked down on by society for a man to have more than one wife/lover a lot of anguish, hurt and jealousy would be eliminated from the black family structure.
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If it wasn’t looked down on by society for a man to have more than one wife/lover a lot of anguish, hurt and jealousy would be eliminated from the black family structure.

Do you seriously think there is no anguish, hurt and jealousy in a polygamous relationship?

I think polygamous relationships are for weak insecure women who want to hang on to their man no matter what or obviously for those in whose society it occurs in and is considered the norm, even though it is permitted in Islam, the vast majority of muslims DO NOT practice it.

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Do you seriously think there is no anguish, hurt and jealousy in a polygamous relationship?

I think polygamous relationships are for weak insecure women who want to hang on to their man no matter what or obviously for those in whose society it occurs in and is considered the norm, even though it is permitted in Islam, the vast majority of muslims DO NOT practice it.

On the contrary little girl, it takes a very strong woman to deal with polygamy, something you will never be…. now run along and go eat your bacon and ham sandwich…

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Don’t answer my point again if you are unable to make an intelligent response. For some reason you think it bothers me to read the pig, bacon and ham comments, nah bother ya head sonny.

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Don’t answer my point again if you are unable to make an intelligent response. For some reason you think it bothers me to read the pig, bacon and ham comments, nah bother ya head sonny.

Ofcourse it doesnt bother you, you eat it dont you? And you are what you eat…

Just another one of your inconsistencies, a pork eating, breast exposing, overly assertive feminist muslim cow. I would have more respect for your opinions if it was consistent with the faith you claim…. you’re just a babylonized muslim anyway, just as anoying as the radicals….
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Make up your mind please, am I a Muslim pig or a cow.

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Make up your mind please, am I a Muslim pig or a cow.

dats what I dont like about you… you are all three

Dearest Laila, please dont take my insults to heart, I honestly dont dislike you… just your irritating opinions…
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09-11-2006, 10:51 AM #32
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I think the key issue is not the form of the marriage but the bond between a man and his children, we are lacking that seriously within the black community.

so, in certain cases, would it be more beneficial to have a polygamous (polyandrous) union where the wife has more than one husband as HL mentioned…

@HL, there are places were women have more than one husband. it happens where the population is the reverse of ours and men outnumber women…

Polyandry has occurred in Tibet (see Polyandry in Tibet), the Canadian Arctic, Zanskar, Nepal, India, Zanskar, Ladakh, Toda of South India, Nairs of Kerala, the Nymba, Nishi and Pahari of North India, and Sri Lanka. It is also encountered in some regions of Mongolia, China (especially Yunnan- the Mosuo people), and in some Subsaharan African and American indigenous communities (notably the Surui of northwestern Brazil). The Guanches, the first known inhabitants of the Canary Islands, also practiced it until their disappearance. In other societies, there are people who live in de facto polyandrous arrangements that are not recognized by the law.

Some forms of polyandry appear to be associated with a) the perceived need to retain aristocratic titles or agricultural lands within kin groups, and/or b) with frequent male absence, for long periods, from the household. As to the former variety, consider that in Tibet where the practice is particularly popular among the wealthy Sakya priestly nobility as well as poor small farmers who could ill afford to divide their small holdings. As to the latter variety, as some males return to the household, others leave for a long time, so that there is usually one husband present.

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there is no problem w/ it.
like ALL WISE IDEAS
there are fools that see it for something else.

i personally dont see the apeal of having many women bitchin at me cause them pmsin

but it works some people.
my grandfather is the KING a that game

i got aunts and uncles that a 3-4 years younger than mi lol

im for it but only for people who respect their wives and dodn’t mistreat the idea

personally i’d just consider slick to be enuff and not want no more wifey’s

good drop jihad.
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09-11-2006, 06:11 PM #34
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personally i’d just consider slick to be enuff and not want no more wifey’s

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Listen mate, what you think of me doesn’t really figure. It annoys you that a Muslim female can be assertive, it sort of goes against your idea of the downtrodden submissive oppressed female. You know nothing about how I practice my religion apart from the titbits I portray on here. As for being consistent with my faith, what exactly am I not doing?

Now if you’re able to format a reply without a mention of pigs, bacon, ham, cows, etc go ahead, if not, don’t bother your dreads about it.

Okay, I wont bother my dreads…..

But yu fi stop eat babylon food… the pig is unclean….
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lol this was to be a selfless act of love
the idea being you wouldn’t see it

but since you on to it
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09-11-2006, 10:24 PM #38
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I t takes strong men and women to create a balance such as this.
Unfortunately people are too logged into this European Matrix to overstand the essence of these practices.
Women in this time focus too much on competing with men and believe it is justified because of past injustices made unto woman kind in the past.
Most AFRICKAN men do not have a strong male principle set as far as traditions and AFRIKANESS.
So in this modern world we are forced to adopt European principles which are a direct opposite of what we have done from ANCIENT TIMES.
We as the young and “liberated” live in a dual society where our culture as Afrikans is seen as backward and primitave versus the modern greek based EURO society.
Babylon in this time having created instability in our society using the Lynch methods which has almost erased our story,culture and livity

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Fi real Ghetto yout…. we so babylonized dat we hate our own customs even though we still cant properly fit into the white man’s ways.

Our principles and values are so out of whack that most negros see the white guys ways as the only or best way, quick to dismiss eons of traditions in favor of hedonism and sodomy i.e. white culture….

Exactly my point !

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I t takes strong men and women to create a balance such as this.
Unfortunately people are too logged into this European Matrix to overstand the essence of these practices.
Women in this time focus too much on competing with men and believe it is justified because of past injustices made unto woman kind in the past.
Most AFRICKAN men do not have a strong male principle set as far as traditions and AFRIKANESS.
So in this modern world we are forced to adopt European principles which are a direct opposite of what we have done from ANCIENT TIMES.
We as the young and “liberated” live in a dual society where our culture as Afrikans is seen as backward and primitave versus the modern greek based EURO society.
Babylon in this time having created instability in our society using the Lynch methods which has almost erased our story,culture and livity

All valid points, but what is your stance on polygamy?

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09-12-2006, 10:09 AM #42
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so, in certain cases, would it be more beneficial to have a polygamous (polyandrous) union where the wife has more than one husband as HL mentioned…

@HL, there are places were women have more than one husband. it happens where the population is the reverse of ours and men outnumber women…

One must remember in this societies marriage is also used as a form of population control, 1 woman 9 husbands .. one child a year, 1 man 9 wives – well 9 children a year (at least), when it comes to black people we talking bout fixing the family structure so that it supports the growth of a young black baby to a culturally responsible comtributing member of society

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09-12-2006, 04:57 PM #43
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One must remember in this societies marriage is also used as a form of population control, 1 woman 9 husbands .. one child a year, 1 man 9 wives – well 9 children a year (at least), when it comes to black people we talking bout fixing the family structure so that it supports the growth of a young black baby to a culturally responsible comtributing member of society

so would you conclude that polyandrous relationships would be more effective for the black community than monogamous or polygamous ones? here, the children would have the support of mommy and several daddies. how could a child go wrong?

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so would you conclude that polyandrous relationships would be more effective for the black community than monogamous or polygamous ones? here, the children would have the support of mommy and several daddies. how could a child go wrong?

i dont believe polygamous or polyandrous relationships.

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09-13-2006, 02:39 AM #45
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i dont believe polygamous or polyandrous relationships.

you dont have to believe in something to know its worth…

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Polygamous marriage were practice to help poor women 2 live, that y it was most of da time practiced by kings, leaders,rich mans…

So I do beleive in polygamy only if u a rich man that can treat all ur women equal. so it must be practice in a right way.

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If I want to disagree with parts of MY religion, I will and I personally DO NOT ACCEPT polygamy.

even if yu poor and the only way make ur kids live is 2 marry a rich man ?

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it is the duty of a muslim man to marry more than one if he can ,,,,,treat them equal……….but if the woman dont allow it you cant………….

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First of all, it aint YOUR religion…. second, no one says you have to agree with polygamy but if you’re gonna disagree with Islam stop claiming you are muslim, you are a heretic….. and fast becoming an infidel…. definately a Jezebel already…

The way I practice my religion is dear to ME. As for the polygamy issue, how many Muslims actually practice this?. If they were to AGREE with it, surely it would be the norm within Islam for every Muslim male to have 4 – 5 wifes. In retrospect the VAST MAJORITY do not practice it, so does this, therefore, mean that they disagree with this part of the teaching? The same goes for the veil, not all female muslims choose to veil, this is at odds with the interpretation of the passage in the Quran. This, therefore, shows that NOT ALL MUSLIMS are blind followers and choose what is important to them.

As for Jezebel, care to expand?

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Ignorance, disrespect, profanity, childishness, blasphemy and the list could go on but point is already made…

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blasphemy!! he cries, Jesus Dread you are not an Imam from Iran, you simply cannot issue a fatwa. Where exactly have I been blasphenous and about what? WHAT POINT HAS BEEN MADE ALREADY, PRAY DO TELL ? As for the rest, who can be more childish than a chubby pastor photoshopping pigs?

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See what I mean…. them disses would earn you a propper flogging in the market square in Pakistan….. aint it sweet living in and acting like babylon?

Pakistan is not Saudi.
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it is the duty of a muslim man to marry more than one if he can ,,,,,treat them equal……….but if the woman dont allow it you cant………….

You don’t say.

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even if yu poor and the only way make ur kids live is 2 marry a rich man ?

Well I wouldn’t have kids would I without wedlock if I was a good muslim female.

No, I don’t play second fiddle to anyone. There are plenty of muslim females the world over who are poor and have NOT resorted to polygamy.

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Truss mi Taliman, culturally and morally, mi a more muslim than Laila….

ermmmm
NOPE
Impossible.
Stick to Jesus your saviour.

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WHAT HAPPENED TO ANSWERING THE ORIGINAL QUESTION OF THE THREAD?

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as for the polygamy issue i hear you that not many people practise it ?
WELL THE PROPHET OF GOD ENCOURAGED IT (IF YOU HAD THE MEANS)

who is jesusdread to talk to you?
WELL HE IS AHLE KITHAB (IS HE NOT?)

musharraf and iran to you might be a big thing but to me there nothing ?

whos talking about out of wedlock ?
IF THERE IS A WOMAN WHO IS A WIDOW(FOR EXAMPLE) WITH FOUR KIDS AND A MUSLIM MAN WHO HAS GOT ONE WIFE AND NUFF MONEY ……………………………HE SHOULD TAKE ON HER AS WIFE NO.2 AND TREAT HER AS EQUAL TO NO.1

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The way I practice my religion is dear to ME. As for the polygamy issue, how many Muslims actually practice this?. If they were to AGREE with it, surely it would be the norm within Islam for every Muslim male to have 4 – 5 wifes. In retrospect the VAST MAJORITY do not practice it, so does this, therefore, mean that they disagree with this part of the teaching? The same goes for the veil, not all female muslims choose to veil, this is at odds with the interpretation of the passage in the Quran. This, therefore, shows that NOT ALL MUSLIMS are blind followers and choose what is important to them.

Why does a follower have to be blind just because they adhere to the teachings of Quran?

Multiple marriages are not a requirement but a privilage, so it is not surprising that all muslims would not be in polygamous relationships, not everyone drives a car but that doesn’t mean cars are wrong. That’s what irritates me anbout your thinking/reasoning, you have tunnel vision. Stop trying so hard to be so close minded and look around, read some history books, look at life through nature’s eyes and stop restricting yourself to man made rules.

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As for Jezebel, care to expand?

Jezebel was a woman who became queen in Israel through treachery and gave men a hard time, basically a bitch..

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blasphemy!! he cries, Jesus Dread you are not an Imam from Iran, you simply cannot issue a fatwa. Where exactly have I been blasphenous and about what? WHAT POINT HAS BEEN MADE ALREADY, PRAY DO TELL ? As for the rest, who can be more childish than a chubby pastor photoshopping pigs?

Quite funny indeed that you of all people would try and call anyone chubby… the cow that you are!!!

But yes, I do photoshop pigs and you are epitome of all pigs which explains why I photochopped you..

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Pakistan is not Saudi.
Plenty of non-religious people speaking out there.
Big Clap for Musharraf!
Whoppee!

Whooptideedoo, you are Pakistani and not Saudi so what’s your point? Plus they still flog retches like you in Pakistan, any man can walk up to your tit revealing butt and whip the fool outa you and no one would utter a word of displeasure….
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Why does a follower have to be blind just because they adhere to the teachings of Quran?

Multiple marriages are not a requirement but a privilage, so it is not surprising that all muslims would not be in polygamous relationships, not everyone drives a car but that doesn’t mean cars are wrong. That’s what irritates me anbout your thinking/reasoning, you have tunnel vision. Stop trying so hard to be so close minded and look around, read some history books, look at life through nature’s eyes and stop restricting yourself to man made rules.

The Quran advises that you question and seek further knowledge.

As regards to it not being a requirement, polygamy is certainly condoned, which is enough for anyone who wishes to practice it. Don’t be so patronising, he who can’t see beyond his own faith.

As for the rest of your post, I’m not being a party to your continual effort to make jibes at me under the guise of debate.

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